TOXIC WOMEN
In this post, let’s talk about the three types of toxic people you need to stay away from. These three personality traits will help you identify a toxic individual. Toxic people are those whose behavior and lifestyle brings discord, calamity, and negativity instead of positivity to your life. These are the worst people to have in your circle. Simply put, they are poison.
#1 The drama Queens
Drama Queens love to gossip. They love the negativity and misfortunes of others. It’s like food that feeds and fuels their souls. As soon as they find out about the latest news, they are the first ones to go out and spread it, usually by phone, social media platforms and mostly in person.
The drama Queen’s conversation will start by saying “Hey, have you heard about so and so?” That’s their sneaky tactic of getting you to join in with their foolishness. And if you aren’t wise enough not to engage in their nonsense, as soon as they’re done spreading the news to you, it’s on to the next person/victim. And I guaranteed that they will talk about YOU behind your back and everything you said, failing to mention anything that was said by them.
#2 The users
Users are those who take advantage of others’ generosity for their own gain. They’re the ones who only call you or come to visit when they need a favor or want you to do something for them.
It could be wanting to borrow money, your car, personal items, or just anything that belongs to you. And I quote, anything that belongs to you that will satisfy their needs. Some of you may have a boss or coworkers who take advantage of your good work ethics by merely wanting you to take on extra tasks, and in return won’t give you a raise or step up to the plate when you need help. Once you show them your kindness, they will eventually take it as your weakness, most of the time. They always want you to do for them and they never give anything in return. Their main goal is to take, take, take. The more you give, give, give.
#3 The liars
These people just cannot tell the truth if their lives depended on it.
I’m not referring to little white lies that mostly everyone has told from time to time. I’m referring to the people who take it to the extreme! They have what I call the ‘Pinocchio Syndrome.’ Remember the Disney movie about the wooden puppet? That every time he told a lie, his nose would grow? If this could actually happen to liars, you would surely see a lot of long noses walking around because of the lies they tell. Liars are fast thinkers, and they stutter while talking. They don’t even feel guilty or uncomfortable when lying. Actually, some can look you dead in the eyes and keep a straight face. They are so crafty at lying, they believe their own lies, so in their minds they think everyone else believes it as well. To all you liars out there, let me give you a little advice.
I assure you, one day there may be a life-or-death situation and when you try to explain your poor little lying heart out, guess what? No one is going to believe you because you’ve lied so much. Yes, toxic people are poison. They will poison your mind, dreams and your life if you let them, so avoid them at all costs. And remember, nobody’s perfect, but do the right things!