What Women Do With Child Support Money
I’ll be talking about women who use child support for themselves instead of using it for the sole purpose it is supposed to be used for—which is to support the child or children. Again, let me repeat that I’m talking about women who use child support for themselves instead of using it for the child or children. That’s why it’s called, and I quote, “child support,” not mommy support. Here’s a little message to all of these deadbeat mothers: It’s not your money. It’s money that you should be using to take care of your child!
It’s very upsetting to me when I see a child walking around looking dirty, wearing raggedy clothes or worn out shoes, hair not washed, combed or brushed. It appears as though they’re homeless so belong in a shelter. Where is all this money going? Obviously it’s not going towards the child, because if it was then they wouldn’t be looking the way they look at all. While the mother on the other hand is walking around all dolled up, bougie, wearing the finest brand name clothes, handbags and shoes, fine jewelry, rocking the latest hairstyles, nails and feet done. Many of these women are getting other forms of assistance as well—like food stamps, assistance that helps them pay rent, lights, gas, etcetera. So it makes no sense to me when she responds by saying “Oh I have bills to pay,” whenever the father confronts her about her spending habits, using the child’s money on herself instead of his child.
Good fathers who are paying child support and doing the right things for his child always seem to get a bad rap. If he falls behind on his child support due to circumstances beyond his control, he may get his license suspended. So tell me, how in the heck is he supposed to go out and make money to pay his child support as well as pay his own bills?
He may even face jail time which will throw everything off track a little bit more. When it comes down to the rights of the father, their voices need to be heard, whether it’s in courts or through changing these biased laws against men. Women who behave in this manner are not mother material. By them doing this, it appears as though they love the benefits instead of the child. Children are not a game of chess, so these mothers need to stop using them as pawns.
A little advice for these types of so-called mothers I just ranted about: Instead of being concerned about the shape of your body, please, you need to be more concerned about the shape of your mindset when it comes down to being a mother.