SHE LIES TO ME
Women have a tendency to fib…a lot! They even do it when it’s completely unnecessary. This is something I often hear a lot of people say, mainly younger guys. But why is that? That’s what we’re going to discuss. I’m going to give you guys my top 8 reasons why a girl might lie to a guy. So, without further ado, let’s dive in. At some point, I’m sure everyone has been lied to at some point. While these lies are often mostly harmless, they can cause trust issues and weariness. Sometimes the little white lies are what others resort to in order to try to cover things up, get out of something, or to keep feelings from getting hurt. Which leads to the first point:
#1 She doesn’t want to hurt you
This is obviously a no brainer. That’s why it’s the first point I’m going to make. Usually when people lie, they’re trying to spare your feelings from being hurt. Of course, it usually just backfires and ends up with your feelings being even more hurt, but that’s another topic for another blog post. Maybe she doesn’t like something about you, but thinks it’s better for her to just keep it to herself.
#2 She doesn’t want you to have a change of heart
No one wants to make themselves look bad or lesser than another person. So, with that being said, she tries to impress you by hiding the fact that she wasn’t married 8 times before you came along. Or she pretends like she’s rolling in cash when she actually isn’t. So, these particular lies are there just to cover things up. This isn’t about you so don’t take it personal.
She wants to impress you. She wants you to hold her in high regard. Especially if you got the bag, or in better terms, if you’re economically attractive, or if you got a lot of clout and social status.
#3 They wish their lie was really the truth
Another reason why someone might lie about something is because they would like for that lie to be reality. For example, their desires and expectations take over them. And as the old saying goes, if you tell a lie over and over again, it becomes the truth.
#4 She’s hiding things from you
More than likely, it’s the things from her past that she is hiding from you. And this point kind of ties in to her being married 8 times like I mentioned before. Although it could be something minor, there are a few things that she doesn’t want the guy she’s interested in to find out. The reason being is she doesn’t want that gentleman to form any negative opinions and think any less of her. This is also to keep that guy from losing interest in her. She is afraid that you are searching for red flags, and she is even more terrified that you just might find one within her. This is kind of silly and shouldn’t have to be this way since mostly everyone at some point have made mistakes and have done things they wouldn’t want to brag about. Being truthful and honest upfront will only gain the other person’s trust.
#5 She’s damaged goods
Her past relationships may have taken their toll, and now as a result, she’s emotionally traumatized.
Now, she keeps this barrier between the two of you in her mind. She believes the less knowledge you have about her, the easier it would be for her when the two of you split up. This is a form of repression. However, it could be a bit difficult when you try to connect with her, which leads to the next point…
#6 She’s emotionally unavailable
This involves someone who has developed a less emotionally filled personality as the outcome of having experienced a relationship that caused emotional damage. Emotionally unavailable people struggle to form deep, meaningful connections, and have difficulties trusting others, which leads to our next point…
#7 She doesn’t trust you
Guys, this concept is easy to grasp.
Don’t expect her to reveal anything that is true about her if she believes you will use it against her. Then again, if you think this is the case, why do you still hang out with her? Don’t take this as some challenge to win her trust. Instead, just be assertive and say something about it to her face.
#8 She’s just simply a compulsive liar
Hey, it is what it is. There is no way around it. Point. Blank. PERIOD.
Let’s keep it real, she is just a straight up liar. You might have even noticed her stories don’t usually add up. There are even some clear indications of lying, such as avoiding eye contact, breaking out in a nervous sweat, and stumbling over words or rambling. This kind of falls into a narcissistic category. She even lies when it’s completely unwarranted. For example, telling someone that she spent her day shopping at the mall, and then went to Taco Bell afterwards to grab a bite, when in fact, she never stepped outside her house that entire day.
These are types that come up with stories centered around themselves. A narcissistic liar makes themselves out to be more than they really are, regardless of the situation. But there is good news! Since their stories are so off-the-wall, farfetched, and downright unbelievable, these types of liars are very, very easy to spot. And those are my 8 reasons why a girl might lie to a guy. Thanks for reading and be on the lookout for more content like this!